My Kid Wants to Play Tennis, Where Do I Even Start?

If your kid just told you they want to play tennis, congratulations…and welcome to the slightly overwhelming world of youth tennis. The good news: you don't need to know anything about the sport to get your child off to a great start. You just need a plan.

Step 1: Don't book lessons yet

It's tempting to sign up for the first available class, but jumping straight into a group lesson with zero racket experience can actually work against your child. Kids who've never held a racket often spend their first few lessons just learning to hold it and make contact with the ball…time that could be spent building real skills if they'd had a little practice first.

Step 2: Get comfortable with a racket at home

Before any formal instruction, have them get comfortable holding a racket, bouncing a ball on the strings, and hitting against a wall or fence. Five or ten minutes a day is plenty. This "pre-lesson" phase builds hand-eye coordination and confidence so your child walks into their first real lesson already feeling capable.

Step 3: Choose the right first environment

Group clinic, private lesson, or just you and a bucket of balls in the driveway? For most 5–9 year olds, a mix of low-pressure home practice plus a beginner-friendly group class (not private lessons yet) works best. Group classes are social, game-based, and forgiving of mistakes — exactly what a first exposure to a new sport should be.

Step 4: Set the right expectations

The goal at first isn't a perfect forehand. It's making sure your kid *likes* tennis. Skill comes later. Enjoyment has to come first, or it won't.

 

Want a head start?

My guide, 25 Tennis Drills for Parents and Kids*, gives you simple, progressive drills you can run in your backyard or driveway before the first lesson to ensure your child steps onto the court already confident.

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25 Tennis Drills for Kids and Parents